Do Not Press Me


Today’s first reading is the lovely story of Ruth and Naomi. Women will tell you that there is something sacred about the bonds that are created in friendship. This story exemplifies that connection as Ruth pleads Do not press me to leave you or to turn back from following you! Where you go, I will go; where you lodge, I will lodge; your people shall be my people, and your God my God. Ruth clings to her and Naomi consents.

When I look back over my life, I see that from a very early age my friendships with girls buoyed me and affirmed me. The relationships that I formed in elementary school are still in tact today. When I studied in the United States as a 20-year-old, I became enlightened about feminism and social justice. I maintain friendships with several of the women from my study days. When I returned to the U.S. years later to do an internship with a social justice organization, I continued contact with folks too. These were my people. I do still have male friends from these life experiences and I value them as well but there is something about the friendships with women that are unique.

Many of these women have pointed me towards God and for that I will be ever grateful. The Gospel today reminds us of the two great commandments: You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind….you shall love your neighbour as yourself.  I think the depth of the relationship that Ruth and Naomi shared was God-centred and many of the friendships I have are too–or at the least–bring me to the Face of God. That is pure gift.



Reflection Questions:

Who in your life is someone with whom you share a deep friendship?

Is there a person in your life that points you towards God?


God, I love you with all of my heart, soul and mind

I love you more than I can explain

I find you wonderfully hidden in the faces of those I encounter

In conversations rich and meaningful

In life-changing encounters that make me want to cling

In healthy ways to You and to go where You lead.


About sstyves

A Canadian prairie girl rooted in Ignatian spirituality, I seek God in all things. Whether I catch a glimpse of the Divine and delight in its presence in nature or in the beauty of an encounter with someone, I am ever so grateful that I can recognize the Creator. I greet each new day with hope and happiness, expecting blessings and miracles because I am created to praise, love and serve God. This blog is one way of realizing that through my writings, prayers, and photography. To God be the Glory!
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2 Responses to Do Not Press Me

  1. Karen Wheadon says:

    I’ve been enjoying learning new things about you throughout your posts Suzanne. Yes I’ve value the the satisfying friendships of woman. Wish I would have had more. Can honestly say that I’ve only had about 4 maybe true loyal friendships, people I can trust and count on, but I’m grateful for that:)

    Sent from my iPad


    • sstyves says:

      I’m glad you’re discovering a little bit more about me and hopefully you are finding out new things about yourself too. You’re a loyal and trustworthy friend and count you amongst the women I love to spend time with. Wish that happened more often!

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